Feeling sad

[Fatstang]

I can't sleep, i just feel so terrible. I went to a Wake today after work. It was for a co-worker, he was part of Human Resources. I just can't stop thinking about it, it saddens me so much. He was thee nicest, professional, friendliest guy in the whole company of 2000 employee's. He was only 28yrs old :sad: He passed Tuesday morning. I talked to him Monday afternoon at work, just a simple polite conversation for a few minutes, but he was that kind of person to go out of his way for anyone, even a complete stranger and show concern. He was the guy i went thru to get my current position i am at now. I really enjoyed bumping into him in the hall, almost everyday of the week i would see him and say hi. I just feel that this wasn't fair, and i am having a really hard time accepting it, but maybe typing this down will help,
I just had to get it off my chest. Casandra and I were a wreck when we got to the front to pay out repsects. We waited in a line for an hour and a half to do so. There were so many people there for him, he was greatly respected, he was a genuine person. It's a tragedy everyone is having a hard time to cope with. I have many questions like why and how can this happen to such a great person and at his age? He was fit and healthy, but Tuesday morning he had a seizure that lead to cardiac arrest which he slip into a coma, shortly after passing away. He had no medical history of any sort of problems before. He was married to his high school sweet-heart, and they just bought a house not too long ago i heard. The autopsy for what i heard so far is, the cause of all of this is unknowned. I feel his death was not fair, he shouldn't be laying in that casket, he should be living his life to the fullest. Why does God take the good ones, when the scum of the Earth still roam around. I just couldn't look at him in that coffin, it just didn't seem right, but i know this is a part of life and everything happens for a reason:(

[Nick 1]

I hear ya.................

[MrsSmokin'Red35th]

I'm so sorry, I know what you mean. I lost a baby brother who only lived for 10 days and I still question to this day why?

My prayers are with you that you can find some closure.

[orange67stang]

Sorry to hear about that Steve, nobody knows why these things happen its all part of gods plan I guess.Theres not a day that goes by when I think of my dad.Life is not fair sometimes.

[b4mytm]

I'm really sorry about this Steve.I know how hard it is to go through things like this.
You know you have everyone here to support you.

[trink408]

Sorry to hear about this, these things are never easy. I have lost a lot of friends for my age (I'm 28), and I can't ever understand it. You try to find some reasoning, but sometimes its very hard to.
All we can hope is that there is something beyond this place, and they are truly at peace.

My condolences go out to all his friends and family.......

[Greg@GLD]

Steve, as you pass thru this life, this kind of thing will happen again. Keep your faith intact.
Keep your friend/co-worker alive in your memory.

As the others have said, thee's a reason for everything.

Just keep your faith.

[Fatstang]

Thanks for the kind words everyone, it does help.

[smokin'Red35th]

Greg nailed this one. its sad that things like this happen and they seem unfair. Just keep your head up man.
My prayers will go out to him and friends/family.

sorry to hear this steve.

[Fatstang]

Thanx Devin

[Tim Russell]

Steve, I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Yes some things don't make sense.

I lost a co-worker a month ago, super nice guy but he had some medical problems. Always had a joke or something and I miss him not being in the office.

I also lost an uncle 2 weeks ago, he was 78 but when I saw him at Christmas he seemed well. He suffered a stroke after knee surgery. I'll miss him greatly. He and my dad were very close, hunting and fishing buddies and all that, it's gonna be hard on him. They were always doing things together. I didn't talk about this here before I'm still sort of shocked with it being so unexpected.

[tilla88]

Sorry hear about that but some say only the good die young we had a tragic accident happen not far from where i live 2 nights ago A 2 and 1/2 year old boy who was taken from his loser parents drown in a river behind his foster parents home the river is high because of the spring run off it took them six hours to find him and he had traveled approximatly 6 miles down stream you gotta wonder what the good lord is thinking and whats bugging me is what that poor little innocent kid went through and where the hell were his caretakers. It really bothers me because I got a three year old daughter and I dont let her out of my sight and I am sure most of you know how fast them little kids can dissappear when they are on a mission, but these people had no idea they reported him missing and then the search began.

[smokin'Red35th]

Sorry hear about that but some say only the good die young we had a tragic accident happen not far from where i live 2 nights ago A 2 and 1/2 year old boy who was taken from his loser parents drown in a river behind his foster parents home the river is high because of the spring run off it took them six hours to find him and he had traveled approximatly 6 miles down stream you gotta wonder what the good lord is thinking and whats bugging me is what that poor little innocent kid went through and where the hell were his caretakers. It really bothers me because I got a three year old daughter and I dont let her out of my sight and I am sure most of you know how fast them little kids can dissappear when they are on a mission, but these people had no idea they reported him missing and then the search began.
that is sad to hear. some people dont deserve to have and take care of children